Second Act With Manisha Koirala!

I was at the Hindu Lit For Life (Hindu LFL) that concluded in Chennai recently. It is a big event and there are parallel sessions running in different spaces at any given time. So it is practically not possible for anybody to attend all sessions. One chooses what one wants and plans accordingly. I had decided on attending quite a few, and a session with Manisha Koirala was one of them. Titled "Second Act", it was to feature her in conversation with Dr. Sheela Nambiar, an obstetrician and gynaecologist by training who also practises Lifestyle Medicine. and is a fitness consultant. 

I remember Manisha as a beautiful and competent actress, having seen her performances in "1942: A Love Story" (1994), "Agni Sakshi" (1996),  Khamoshi: The Musical (1996) and some other films. Reports of her being struck by ovarian cancer emerged some time in 2012-2013. She put up a brave fight and emerged victorious after surgery and treatment in the USA. Her book "Healed: How Cancer Gave Me A New Life", published by Penguin India in 2018 tells the story of her battle with the dreaded disease. She was at the Hindu LFL to talk about this difficult chapter in her life.

She came on the stage dressed in a dark blue and white ensemble-- a mix of blouse/top and salwar/dhoti, her hair pulled back and tied in a severe bun. She smiled a lot and established an instant rapport not only with Dr. Nambiar, but also with the audience. She looked calm and at peace with herself in spite of the ravages of time and cancer on her lovely face.

She talked of her reckless lifestyle when she was at the peak of her career, and the resultant neglect of health. How she went into a denial mode after she learnt of her cancer, thinking all the time that perhaps the doctors had made a mistake, maybe the reports were wrong. Then the painful treatment and its aftermath. How her family, her mother in particular, provided solid support to her during those testing times. How thinking positively helped her overcome her disease. How important it is to be strong and optimistic even while going through unbearable pain. How this phase has taught her to take care of her body, to make the most of what life has to offer, to live.

Dr. Nambiar was understanding and supportive all along, allowing Manisha to be in her comfort zone. Manisha, on the other hand was frank and quite open. She said it was important to keep negativity and resentment at bay, and move on with one's life. She has understood the importance of giving, not just money; but time, love and care to others. She has emerged out of her ordeal as a better person, more compassionate, more loving, more giving. 

She has resumed work after recovery. She appeared in "Dear Maya" in 2017, then in a Netflix anthology "Lust Stories", and essayed the role of Nargis in Sanjay Dutt's biopic "Sanju" in 2018. She will continue working, but currently she is training for a trek to the Everest base camp that she plans to undertake with her friends.

The audience cheered her throughout the interaction. Reacting to a question she disclosed that the doctors had still not said that she was completely cured--I have told myself that I am cured now. When somebody asked if she thought of committing suicide at any point of time, she laughed and said, I had cancer already, why would I think of suicide. The 50-minute interaction was full of warmth, honesty and smiles. 

I am happy I sat in, it gave me a chance to see the person behind the larger-than-life image of a film actress. Somebody from the audience summed it up well when he got up and said to Manisha, "We heard all the other talks with our mind, but your talk has touched our hearts ma'am!"